想放纵也许是人类的天性,然而放纵与悔恨也往往是人们不快乐的主因,是导致人生悲剧的最大因素。而会学驾驭自己则是一生的功课。刚刚学会骑车或开车的人,通常都是很兴奋的,因为他能够驾驭一个机械的结构体,到处游走。事实上,学会驾驭自己——这个世界上最复杂的结构体,倒应该是更快乐的事。我总在想,驾驭自己,克制自己,首先得要有个平和的心态才成,对客观的东西有个实事求是的态度 To indulge may be human nature, however, indulgence and remorse are often the main cause of people are not happy, is the biggest factor leading to the tragedy of life. But learning to control yourself is a lifetime of homework. People who have just learned to ride or drive a car are usually very excited because he can manage a mechanical structure and walk around. In fact, learning to harness yourself - the most complicated structure in the world - should be happier. I always think, control myself, restraint myself, first of all have to have a calm state of mind, objective things have a realistic attitude