问:我今年35岁,性生活很和谐,生活也幸福。近日我妻子说她已连续观察我多日,发现每天早晨我醒来之前阴茎都处于勃起状态,并认准一定是我梦见与其他女人在一起才这样的,还逼我承认,说出“她”是谁。我根本没有梦见哪个女人,怎么承认?为此闹得夫妻关系紧张。我想知道:怎样才能在睡眠状态中使阴茎处于放松状态? Q: I am 35 years old this year. My sex life is very harmonious and my life is happy too. Recently my wife said she has been observing me for many days and found that every morning I woke up before the penis are in an erection and look for sure I must dream of being with other women just like this, but also forcing me to admit, say "Who is she. I do not have a dream which woman, how to admit? Too nervous husband and wife for this reason. I want to know: how to put the penis in a state of relaxation in a relaxed state?