尔冬升的爱情片是突破了传统的爱情片格局的,他的爱情片展开的便不是传统爱情片里的童话式的爱情超越主题,而是由爱情带出来对生活本身的思考、对勤奋善良友爱的美好人性的歌颂、对理想对艺术的哲学式思考、对男女两性如何相处的探索、对理想个性与爱情的冲突的展示和描绘以及爱情与拯救等等主题。 Er Dong’s love story is a breakthrough of the traditional pattern of love, his love story is not the traditional love story fairy tale love beyond the theme, but by love out of life itself thinking, hard work Good people and friends of good human praise, philosophical reflection on the ideal of art, exploration of how men and women live together, the display and portrayal of the conflict between ideal personality and love, and love and salvation.