当代中国的婚姻焦虑,主要是社会转型导致价值多元、道德失范,进而引起形形色色的主观焦虑,诸如为啥结婚、与谁结婚、在哪结婚、结不结婚、离不离婚、复不复婚……;但是不容忽视的是,社会结构的快速变化制造了婚姻市场的匹配失衡,客观上恶化了婚姻的社会交换环境,促成或加剧了婚姻焦虑,这样的焦虑可以说是一种客 Contemporary China’s marriage anxiety, mainly due to social transformation leads to multiple values, moral anomie, and then cause all kinds of subjective anxiety, such as why married, who married, where marriage, marriage, divorce, complex non-remarriage ...... However, it can not be ignored that rapid changes in social structure have created a marriage imbalance in the marriage market, objectively deteriorated the social exchange environment of marriage and contributed to or exacerbated marital anxiety. Such anxiety can be described as a kind of customer