古人早就说过:“友谊,因缘而生,因情而结,无欲无求,君子之风。”真正的友谊是一种相互信任、相互交心、纯洁高尚的人际关系。真挚的友谊,不是靠投其所好,不是靠施舍,不是靠怜悯,更不是靠投机,而是在较长时间的自然磨合、交流中,逐渐建立起了一种投缘的联系,有共同语言、共同爱好、共同的人生观、荣辱观。这种在相知前提下建立起来的友谊,不会因一时的误会而生厌,不会因对方“失去价值”而疏远,不会因双方社 The ancients said long ago: “Friendship, born of love, knotted by reason, no desire, gentleman’s style.” True friendship is a kind of interpersonal relationship of mutual trust, mutual respect, purity and nobleness. Sincere friendship is not based on giving, not on mercy, not on mercy, not on speculation, but on a longer run of nature and exchange, and gradually establish a kind of connection, with a common language , Common hobby, a common outlook on life, the concept of honor. This kind of friendship established on the premise of mutual understanding will not be annoyed by temporary misunderstandings and will not be estranged by the other party’s loss of value.