朱子《家礼》是应宋代礼仪的世俗化和士庶礼仪的需要产生的。《书仪》和《五礼新仪》在推行中受到冷遇,亦是朱子编撰《家礼》的重要原因。相对于《书仪》来说,《家礼》的优势在于没有繁文缛节,亦没有连篇累牍的考证,易为普通大众所接受。《家礼》对宋元明清时期士庶家族和个人的行为生活产生了深远影响,其所具有的变通精神,可为今人重塑礼仪文明时参考借鉴。 Zhu Li’s “family ceremony” was produced in response to the secularization of the rituals of the Song Dynasty and the needs of scholarship and rituals. “Bookstore” and “Five Ceremonies” suffered a cold reception in the process of implementation. It is also an important reason that Zhu Zixian compiled “Family Ceremony”. Relative to the “book instrument”, the advantage of “family ceremony” is that there is no red tape, no lengthy textual research and is easily accepted by the general public. “Family Ceremony” had a far-reaching impact on the life and behavior of the families and individuals in the Song and Yuan Dynasties and the Ming and Qing Dynasties. The mettle spirit that it has can be used as a reference for people to reshape the ceremonial civilization.