现代女性需要“两性特征”,即兼有“男女特性”。只培养女儿典型的女性行为,看上去是很自然的事情,但对她的发展并不好。研究证明,相当多的具有传统特征的人,受高度焦虑、低度自信和社会肯定度低的困扰,而那些表现出兼有“两性特征”的女性,有着较强的自信心和健康的心态。人们有理由相信,如果让女儿把男性的特征融入她的女性特征中,她会更幸福,更成功。 有些父母担心,培养女儿的自信和一些男性特征,可能会使她过分男性化,造成将来家庭生活的不幸,或为朋友所不能接 Modern women need “gender characteristics”, that is, both “men and women characteristics.” It seems natural to cultivate her daughter’s typical female behavior, but not good for her development. Studies have shown that a considerable number of people with traditional characteristics suffer from high levels of anxiety, low self-esteem and low social affirmativeness. Women who show both gender characteristics have strong self-confidence and a healthy attitude . There is reason to believe that she would be happier and more successful if she had her daughters incorporate the characteristics of men into her female traits. Some parents worry that cultivating their daughter’s self-esteem and some masculine characteristics may make her overly masculine, causing unfortunate future family life or being unable to take care of her friends