作为两性间最亲密的互动,性爱却常常是不完美的。你能欣然接受对方的每一次要求吗?你和伴侣总能配合得如鱼得水吗?你总能收获满足和愉悦吗?显然,答案往往是否定的。性爱中的微妙互动会引发伴侣双方截然不同的情绪体验,可我们却常常忽略这些摩擦和困惑,将其积压在心底,拖到下一次的亲密互动中,久而久之,对亲密关系造成了损伤。 As the most intimate interaction between genders, sex is often imperfect. Can you gladly accept each other’s requests? Can you and your partner always work together? Are you always satisfied and happy? Obviously, the answer is often negative. The subtle interaction in sexual love triggers a completely different emotional experience between two partners. However, we often neglect these friction and confusion, backloging to the bottom of our hearts and dragging on to the next intimate interaction. As time passes, we are hurting the intimacy.