什么是淑女?古时候那种大门不出、二门不跨、笑不露齿、贤淑端庄、上得厅堂、下得厨房、相夫教子、三从四德的女人就是淑女吗？那淑女也忒累了点。 如果你用这样的标准来要求现代女孩子,尤其是北京的女孩子,我敢肯定地说,北京肯定一个这样的淑女也找不到。 我觉得北京是有淑女的,两种淑女,一种是那种温文尔雅的,另一种我叫它另 What is a lady? In ancient times the kind of door is not out, two do not cross, smile unspoken, virtuous dignified, on the hall, the next kitchen, a husband and wife, three from four virtues of the woman is a lady? That lady also Intuit tired. If you use such a standard to demand that modern girls, especially girls in Beijing, I’m sure that Beijing will definitely not find such a lady. I think Beijing is a lady, two ladies, one kind is gentle, the other I call it another