对于婚姻,我有与其他女人不同的认识,更与一些被称之为哲人的名家的认识相悖甚远。曾经有人把婚姻比做女人的长期饭票,甚至像林语堂这样欧美化了的现代鸿儒,在他著名的《中国人》里也鼓吹:“婚配是女人最好的,也是惟一的职业。”“失去丈夫欢心的妇女与失去老板欢心的职员,心情是一样的;没有结婚的姑娘与失业者的心情也差不多……”听了这些话,现在的女人准会撇着嘴在心里骂,这混 I have a different understanding of marriage than any other woman, and I find myself far from knowing what some are known as philosophers. Someone once compared marriage to a woman’s long-term meal ticket, and even modernized Confucianism such as Lin Yutang in Europe and the United States advocated in his famous “Chinese”: “Marriage is the best and only woman in a woman’s career.” “ The same is true for women who have lost their husband’s favor and those who have lost their favor, and that girls who are not married and those who are unemployed are almost in the same mood ... ”After listening to these words, women nowadays will be scolded by their mouths,