被侵蚀的亲密能力:“你发现自己不知何时已经身处谷底,独自一人,浑身发抖”数据表明,女性的欲望日趋下降,我们似乎正处在一个“力比多危机”时代。情况究竟有没有那么可怕?《纽约杂志》的网站上有个科普动画,名为“Your Sex Drive is Normal”(你的性欲没问题),运用Emily Nagoski博士的“自发性欲望”和“应答性欲望”理论,讲了这样一个观点:人和人不一样,别觉得自己有毛病。高兴点儿,慢慢来,一切都会好的。短片的积极结尾令人顺心,但转念想来,既然要费劲安慰大家,恐怕多少还是说明了一些问题。什么问题呢?对许多女性来说,性似乎并不是一 Eroded intimacy: “You find yourself wondering when you’re in the bottom, alone, trembling.” The data show that the desires of women are declining, and we seem to be in a “Libido crisis” era . The situation is not so terrible? “New York Magazine” website has a popular science animation, called “Your Sex Drive is Normal” (your sexuality is no problem), the use of Dr. Emily Nagoski’s “spontaneous desire” And “Responsive Sex Desire” theory, to say the following: people and people are not the same, do not feel faulty. Glad, slowly, everything will be fine. The positive end of the video is pleasing to the heart, but after turning around, I am afraid that it will explain some of the problems as much as possible to console everyone. What is the problem? For many women, sex does not seem to be one