首先给大家讲一则小故事:我是一个非常倒霉的人,跟失败好像有缘似的,我觉得这一辈子完了,但又很不甘心。一日,我去见一位智者。“请问,怎样才能成功呢?”我恭敬地问。智者笑笑,递给我一颗花生问:“它有什么特点?”我愕然。“用力捏捏它。”智者说。我用力一捏,当然,被我捏碎的 First of all, to tell you a little story: I am a very unlucky person, with the failure seems destined, I think this life is over, but very unwilling. One day, I went to see a wise man. “Excuse me, how can we succeed?” I asked respectfully. The wise man smiled and handed me a peanut asks: “What are its characteristics?” I was stunned. “Pinch it hard,” said the wise man. I squeezed hard, of course, was crumpled by me