朋友们都知道我是一个过分的母亲。所谓过分,是指母性太足,足得差不多要失去自我,一切都以孩子为第一。的确,对许多中国母亲来说,孩子的笑脸是最好的嘉奖,最大的慰藉。不过,朋友们其实还是只知其一,不知其二,他们以为我一定是个溺爱孩子的人,其实不然,很多时候,我是一个严厉的 My friends all know that I am an excessive mother. The so-called excessive means that motherhood is enough, almost enough to lose themselves, all with children as the first. Indeed, for many Chinese mothers, the smile of their children is the best reward, the greatest consolation. However, friends actually still only know one, I do not know the second, they think I must be a doting child, it is not, often, I was a harsh