编前话:“公婆不给我带孩子,不拿钱赞助我们买房子,以后就别指望我们给他们养老。”生活中,我们经常能听到有的媳妇如是说。老人该不该给子女带孩子?该不该把养老的钱全拿出来给儿女?该不该让人生最后的时光都被孩子绑架?这些渐渐成了社会关注的热点话题。据调查,目前我国帮助子女照顾孙子女的老年人比例达66.47%。其中有30%的儿童甚至被放在祖父母家里抚养照顾。而 Preface: “In-laws do not give me children, do not give money to sponsor us to buy a house, then do not expect us to give them pension.” "In life, we often hear some of the wife said. Should the elderly bring their children with children? Should we take all the money out of old-age pens for children? Should we let our children be kidnapped in the last days? These have gradually become a hot topic of social concern. According to the survey, the proportion of elderly people in our country that help their children take care of grandchildren reaches 66.47%. Thirty percent of these children are even taken care of at grandparents’ home. and