当代心理学家和教育学家一致认为,家庭拆散,各成员的心灵都会受到伤害,而孩子受到的伤害最为严重。离婚在今天虽然是相当常见,但夫妻分手时,无论父母如何“妥善”地把消息告诉孩子,孩子们的反应通常是相类似的:缺乏安全感、忧虑、痛苦、忿怒。父母分离,孩子最先感觉到的是变化,家里有个人忽然不见了。 Contemporary psychologists and educators agree that when a family is torn apart, members’ minds are harmed and children harmed most seriously. Although divorce is fairly common today, when the couple divides, no matter how well their parents “tell” the news properly, children’s reactions are often similar: a lack of security, worry, anguish, and wrath. Parents separated, the child first felt the change, the family suddenly disappeared.