“摽梅之叹”作为女子盼嫁的典故,?H?人误以为周代女性在爱情婚姻方面比较自由开放。实际上,“摽梅之叹”恰恰是周代婚姻制度和生育政策双重制约下女性不幸命运的悲苦体现。周代生育政策下,催生了《摽有梅》等一批《诗经》幽会诗,随着时代的发展,这些幽会诗也经历了较大的发展变化。 “Sigh plum ” As an example of a woman wishing to marry, H? Mistakenly believe that women in the Zhou Dynasty love marriage more liberal and open. In fact, “sighs ” is precisely the sad embodiment of the unfortunate fate of women under the dual constraints of the marriage system and the birth policy of the Zhou dynasty. Under the procreation policy of the Zhou Dynasty, a batch of poems of “Book of Songs” such as “Ji Youmei” have been born. With the development of the times, these tryst poems also experienced great development and change.