从2岁左右开始,孩子的身体活动能力渐渐增强了,这在客观上为他们提供了比较大的自由度,而且这个时候孩子的自我意识开始发展,做事情开始有了自己的主张。于是,亲子冲突便不可避免地出现了。过去,一提到“冲突”二字,人们很容易把它与不良亲子关系建立联系,以为只有和谐融洽才好,才正常。而杜恩(Dunn)、德海姆(Denham)、莱博(Laible)等心理学家近十多年来的一系列研究发现:婴幼 From 2 years old or so, children’s physical activity gradually increased, which objectively provided them with a greater degree of freedom, but this time the child’s self-awareness began to develop, things began to have their own ideas. As a result, parent-child conflicts inevitably appeared. In the past, when it was mentioned that the word “conflict” was used, it was easy for people to establish contact with bad parent-child relationship, thinking that harmony and harmony would only be good and normal. A series of studies by psychologists such as Dunn, Denham and Laible found that infants and young children