心理学家瑞伯格博士在《新男性观》一书中指出:男人并不是拙于经营亲密关系,而是通过做爱、养家、充当护花使者来表达他们的爱意及感受亲密关系,所以用女人的标准来衡量爱情时,男人的表现根本不及格。可是有时候用男人的方式处理感情,倒是 Psychologist Dr. Reiborg pointed out in his book New Men’s Outlook that men are not clumsy in their business of intimacy, but express their love and feelings of intimacy through making love, raising their own family, and acting as an angel of peace Men’s performance simply failed to measure love as a woman’s standard. But sometimes the way to deal with the feelings of men, it touches