或许是从小就被父母“大包大揽”的缘故,现在我一旦碰上需要进行选择的事情就会感到非常头疼。小到在食堂吃什么菜,在商场买什么衣服,大到人生未来的规划或设想,等等,好像总是不知该如何选择。每每艰难选择以后,我又会立刻后悔起来:“哎呀,当初要是选了XXX就好了。”对我而言,没有选择似乎成了最好的选择。每次看到身边的小伙伴都清楚地知道自 Perhaps from an early age, she was “overwhelmed by his parents.” Now I feel a headache when I run into something that I have to choose. Small to what to eat in the cafeteria, what to buy clothes in the mall, big to the future planning or vision of life, and so on, it seems always I do not know how to choose. I often regret it when I have a hard time choosing: “Oh, it would have been nice if XXX had been selected.” To me, having no choice seemed to be the best bet. Each time I see the small partners around know clearly