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孩子犯了错误,做家长的便头痛起来—该怎样教育他(她)呢? 有些家长一看到孩子做错事,就大发雷霆,发脾气,虽然也能让孩子知道自己这样做不好,但是效果并不是最好的。尤其是你“热”过头了,孩子就会不服,找出许多理由来顶撞你,根本不会去反省自己的错误。所以,家长在批评教育孩子时,一定要留有余地,给时间让他(她)自己去反省。“冷”“热”相结合,才能达到目的。对于年纪较小、犯了错误自己却不知道的孩子,家长可先进行“热外理”再“冷处理”。例如:读小学一年级的孩子不懂
When a child makes a mistake and becomes a painful parent-in-law, how can he or she be educated? Some parents are furious and angry when they see their children doing something wrong. Although they can help their children know that they are not doing so well, The effect is not the best. Especially if you are overheated, your child will not be satisfied and you will find many reasons to hit you. You will not reflect on your own mistakes. Therefore, when parents criticize and educate their children, they must leave room for them to reflect on themselves. “Cold” “hot” combination, in order to achieve their goals. For young children who have made mistakes but do not know them, parents may conduct “hot external treatment” and then “cold treatment.” For example: Primary school children do not understand