如果生命一目了然,没有惊喜和意外,又有什么意思呢?很多父母不需要明晰的论证就会服从一些教育理念,比如看到一个“最大的教育是……”的标题,比如“中国教育就是一个精神病院”的咒骂,比如“孩子的一生由……决定”这样斩钉截铁的论断。只要给出一个看似明确的答案,很多父母马上就会选择服从,仿佛他们一直在寻找的只是服从。服从,可以减少面对孩子“不确定的未来”时难以忍受的焦虑。美国有一句俚语叫“敲敲木头,把 If life is clear at a glance, there are no surprises and surprises, what does it mean? Many parents obey some educational concepts without explicit argument, for example, they can see a title like ”The greatest education is ...“ such as ”China Education is a psychiatric hospital, “such as” the child’s life is determined by ... “Such a categorical conclusion. Given a seemingly definite answer, many parents will immediately choose to obey as if they were looking for obedience only. Obedience can reduce unbearable anxiety in the face of a child’s ”uncertain future.“ There is a slang in the United States called ”knock knock wood, put