独立性指的是遇事有主见,不依赖他人就能独立处理事情,包括心理健康、情感独立和自控能力,而不是单纯地自己会洗衣服、自己完成作业等生活自理能力。家长要从思想上认识到孩子应有独立的人格,养成其独立处理问题的能力,并在日常生活中尽可能培养孩子独立人格的形成和完善。 Independence refers to the fact that you can handle things independently, including mental health, emotional independence and self-control, without having to rely on others, rather than simply being able to wash your own clothes and perform your own homework. Parents should ideally recognize that children should have independent personality and develop their ability to handle problems independently, and try their best to cultivate the formation and perfection of children’s independent personality in their daily life.