人们常说,谈恋爱是一门艺术。这话一点都不错。但是这话的言外之意是:艺术只能凭灵感,只能靠天生,学是没法儿学的。这可就不对了。谈恋爱有许多规律,也有许多窍门。这些知识不仅对未婚的青年男女大有好处,对于已婚夫妻来说,也是多多益善。因为结婚并不等于恋爱的结束,反而是恋爱加性爱的开始。 People often say that falling in love is an art. This is not bad at all. But the implication of these words is that art can only rely on inspiration and can only learn by nature. This is wrong. There are many laws of love, there are many tips. This knowledge is not only good for unmarried young men and women, but also for the married couple. Because marriage does not mean the end of love, but the beginning of love plus love.