有一次我参加培训时,出生于50年代的老师对我们说:我们那个年代是一个钉子一个眼,一个岗位就是一辈子。看到现在的年轻人有很多选择的机会,我们很羡慕。人需要有适当的选择的机会,可以证明自己和更好地发挥自己,但是心里不要装下太多选择,因为选择多了就成了折磨。人们之所以去漂泊,一是因为可以选择;二是因为总有不满,不满的另一个说法是有追求。但是我有时会想,年轻时是否不应当过于激进,过于追求想象中的成功,过于依赖冒险带来的愉悦呢?路上人太多了,走得都太激烈,无端生出了许多拥堵,路就变得更难走了。也许不那么激烈,都慢一点去走,会发现路上还有风景,也会发现,每个人都有路可走。我们需要的是放弃一些名誉之内的东西,放慢生活的节拍,多看看自己的身体,多关心自己的家人,甚至于多看看路边的 Once I attended the training, the teacher who was born in the 1950s told us: Our time was a nails and a job is a lifetime. We are envious to see that there are many opportunities for young people today. People need the right choices to prove themselves and to be better able to play for themselves, but do not put too many choices in their hearts because more choices become tortured. The reason why people go to wandering, one because they have the choice; the second is because there are always dissatisfied, dissatisfied with another argument is the pursuit. But sometimes I wonder if young people should not be overly radical. Too much pursuit of imagined success is too dependent on the joy of adventure. Too many people on the way, go too fiercely and give birth to many congestions. Become harder to go. Perhaps not so fierce, are a little slower to go, you will find there are scenery on the road, will find that everyone has a way to go. What we need is to give up something under the banner of honor, to slow down the beats of life, to look more at our own bodies, to care more about our own families, to see more of the wayside