有位朋友是众所公认的黄金单身汉,在三十岁过后,与同居三年、美丽贤淑的前女友分手,和一位他所认识的最有个性也最能干的女子S步入礼堂,承受“喜新厌旧”的指责,跌破了大家的眼镜,也使昔日女友伤痛欲绝。有人好意劝他:“你跟S结婚,治得了她吗?”他很不高兴地回答:“我要组成家庭,又不是要组成马戏团,我也不是驯兽师,干吗要治她?”过了几年,他回想自己当初作出选择的理由,语重心长地说:“有时我也会想到,如果我娶的是以前的女朋友,就会过着比较没 One friend, a well-known golden bachelor, stepped into the auditorium after the thirties with a beautiful and ex-ex-girlfriend who lived together for three years and one of the most personal and capable women he knew. ”Happy new tired old,“ the accusation, below everyone’s glasses, but also the former girlfriend hurt. Someone advised to persuade him: ”You get married with S, rule her?“ He was very unhappy to answer: ”I want to form a family, not to form a circus, I am not a trainer, what to rule She? “A few years later, he remembered his reasons for the original choice, saying solemnly:” Sometimes I would think that if I marry a former girlfriend, will live without