现在很多青少年的家长们感叹:日渐长大的孩子越来越没法管理了!不是说了不听,嫌你唠叨,嫌你OUT了,就是你说你的,我不反对,但在执行时依然我行我素。所以家长们感慨,真不知道如何与孩子们进行沟通了。而我认为:多倾听,拿出全部的耐心来倾听,这是和孩子进行有效沟通的基础。众所周知,如今的青少年接受信息的来源太多,却还没有形成成熟的分辨是非的能力。他们的观点,有些是被家长认可的,还有很多是让家长根本无法接受的。于是,家长 Now many young parents lament: Growing children more and more unable to manage! Not to say do not listen, suspect you nagging, you OUT, that is, you say you, I do not oppose, but in the implementation Still go its own way. So parents feeling, I really do not know how to communicate with the children. And I think: Listen more and take all your patience to listen, which is the basis for effective communication with your child. It is a well-known fact that today’s adolescents receive too much information from their sources but do not yet have a mature ability to distinguish between right and wrong. Some of their views are endorsed by parents, and many are totally unacceptable to parents. So, parents