[倾听]倾听是一种智慧的体现,无需多言,就可以得到别人的好感——父亲是位老知识分子,为人古板,不喜与人交往,每次儿子来了熟人,父亲就独自躲到书房,很少与人打招呼。一次,儿子的三个高中同学来到家里。大家一见分外亲热,其中有两位喜欢下棋,闲谈中都是些术语、行话,而另外一位 [Listening] Listening is a manifestation of wisdom. Without any words, you can get goodwill from others. The father is an old intellectual. He is an old-fashioned person and does not like to associate with people. Every time a son comes to know someone, his father hid alone. The study rarely greets people. Once, his son’s three high school students came home. Everyone saw a special affection, and two of them liked to play chess. The chats were jargon, jargon, and the other.