心理学上把幼儿三四岁这段时间叫作“第一反抗期”,因为三四岁的幼儿往往特别执拗、任性,他们不知道什么是危险,不愿听父母的话,只是一味地去做自己想做的事,稍不如意,就用哭闹来反抗。许多年轻的父母常为此伤透脑筋。“第一反抗期”形成的原因主要有:一是两三岁之后孩子已经能够自由活动,并学会运用物体的许多典型动作。他们的独立活动的意愿也明显地增长起来,开始更多地尝试自己已经取得经验的作用,因此不论干什么,都想自己来。但是由于他们对自身行动的调节、控制能力和对事物的认识水平毕竟有限,因此往往力不从心,干不 Psychologically, children of three or four are called “the first resistance period,” because three or four-year-olds are often particularly stubborn and self-willed. They do not know what is dangerous and do not want to listen to their parents, just do it blindly What I want to do, a little disappointment, to use crying to resist. Many young parents are often brain-wrenching. The main reasons for the formation of “First Rebellion Period” are as follows. First, two or three years old children have been able to move freely and learn many typical actions of using objects. The will to their independent activities has also apparently increased, starting to try more and more to the effect that they have gained experience, so they want to be whatever they are doing. However, due to their regulation of their actions, their ability to control and the limited understanding of things, they often fail to do their job