简单地把“我”与”“氓”之间的关系确定为“青梅竹马”式是不够准确的.不论从作品内容还是人物关系演变的角度看,“我”对“氓”都经历了一个由“不知”到知,由假知到真知的过程,“我”的性格也随之发生了深刻的变化.如果把“我”与“氓”的关系说成“青梅竹马”式,便违背了“我”的性格发展逻辑. It is inaccurate to simply define the relationship between “me” and “rogue” as “childhood sweet and sour.” Whether “I” or “character” evolves from “ ”I do not know“ to know, from the false to know the process of true knowledge, the character of ”I“ has also undergone profound changes.If the relationship between ”I“ and ”rogue“ as ”childhood“ style, they violate the ” I "character development logic.