我曾读过这样一则寓言:北风和南风比试,看谁能把行人身上的大衣脱掉。北风首先发威,行人为了抵御北风侵袭,把大衣裹得紧紧的。风越大,行人的大衣就裹得越紧。北风费了好大的力气,也没能吹开行人的大衣。北风失败了。南风则徐徐吹拂,顿时,行人觉得春暖衣厚,始则解开纽扣,继而脱掉大衣。从中我明白了:压力不会使人屈服,要想改变一个人的行为习惯,只有征服人的内心,才能使人受到 I have read such a parable: the north wind and southerly competitions to see who can take off the pedestrian’s coat. The first of the north breeze, pedestrians in order to resist the invasion of the north wind, the coat wrapped tightly. The wind is bigger, the pedestrian’s coat is wrapped tight. The north wind took a great deal of effort and did not blow the pedestrian’s coat. North wind failed. Southerly blowing slowly, suddenly, pedestrians feel warm spring clothing thick, the beginning of the button to unlock, and then take off the coat. From which I understand: the pressure will not yield, in order to change a person’s behavior, only to conquer the human heart, can make people receive