礼是中国传统社会中的社会规范和道德规范 ,用于维护社会、家族人伦关系 ,是儒家礼教的重要内容。日本作为中国的近邻 ,深受中国文化的影响 ,但在人伦关系的很多方面却一直与中国传统格格不入。故本文所指的“非礼”不是指现代汉语中的“不合礼节”、“不礼貌” ,而是与儒家礼? Etiquette is the social norms and moral norms in the traditional Chinese society. It is an important part of Confucian ethics and ethics for the purpose of safeguarding social and family relations. As a neighbors of China, Japan is deeply influenced by Chinese culture. However, Japan has always been incompatible with the Chinese tradition in many aspects of its relations with other nations. Therefore, the “indecent assault” referred to in this article does not refer to the “non-conformity” and “impoliteness” in modern Chinese, but rather to Confucian ceremony.