因为我们穷怕了,总是把花钱和道德绑到一块儿,从内心认为:大手大脚就是道德败坏。弟弟总是要钱,给还是不给正忙活着呢,收到弟弟发来的一封电子信,打算向我借三千块,学期末归还,并且表示痛定思痛,一定管好自己,不再乱花钱。这可给我出了个大难题。钱本身不是问题。问题是,我 Because we are so scared, we always put money and morality together, and from the heart we think that extravagant gestures are moral corruption. My brother always wanted money, giving or not being busy, and received an e-mail sent by his brother and planned to borrow 3,000 from me. At the end of the semester, he returned and expressed his pain and certainty to manage himself and stop squandering money. This can give me a big problem. Money itself is not a problem. The problem is, me