定律一:不要寻找“可靠”的人在苛求别人“可靠”时,你不知不觉隐去了一个前提:我是谁,我应该为自己的生命做些什么?当你孜孜以求地寻找那个“可靠”的人时,却全然忘了自己对自己所应承担的责任。其实,苛求别人可靠的人,往往是自己都靠不住自己的人,正因为自己不可靠,才把目光盯在对方身上。这样的要求实在是一种非分,一个自我取消和自我剥夺的人实在没有什么可爱之处,于他人而言,她只是一个包袱。还是自己背起自己的命运吧。 Law One: Do not Look for “Reliable” People In demanding others “reliable”, you unwittingly hidden a premise: Who am I, what should I do for my life? When you are diligently looking for that “reliable ”When completely forgetting their own responsibility for their own. In fact, people demanding reliable, often are themselves unable to rely on their own people, precisely because they are not reliable, only staring at each other’s body. Such a request is indeed a non-point, a self-abolition and self-deprived people really have nothing lovely, for others, she is only a burden. Or yourself to take up their own destiny.