回顾自己的读书生涯,发觉有些最初被视作朋友的同学会因为一些事渐渐与你疏远,成为路人或敌人,究其原因,很大部分是因为嫉妒。张爱玲就曾说过“同行相妒”。这里的“同行”意味深长,或许同学在一定意义上也可看作同行。在我有限的感知里,嫉妒莫过于三种呈现方式。第一种是因为嫉妒而开始对你冷漠,刻意避开你。我在小学时和P玩得很好,后来我当上了学校的广 Looking back at my reading career, I found that some of my classmates, who were initially regarded as friends, will gradually become estranged from you and become passers-by or enemies for a number of reasons, largely because of jealousy. Eileen Chang once said “Peer jealous ”. Here’s “peer ” meaningful, perhaps students in a certain sense can also be seen as peers. In my limited perception, there are three ways of envy than envy. The first is because you’re jealous and you start to be indifferent to you, deliberately avoiding you. I played very well with P in elementary school and later I became a school wide