在《卡耐基论人生哲理》一书中有这样一些文字: 卡耐基曾经去问素凡石油公司的人事部主任保罗·包延登,求职的人常犯的最大错误是什么。这个曾经和六万个求职的人面谈过,还写过一本《谋职的六种方法》的人事部主任回答说:来求职的人所犯的最大错误就是不保持本色。公共场所不以真面目示人,不能完全坦诚,总是想给你一个最理想的回答。事实上,这样做是无济于事的,因为没有人喜欢伪君子,也从来没有人愿意收假钞票。还有一个关于电车车长的女儿凯丝·达莉的故事。她从小喜欢唱歌,并且 There are some words in Carnegie’s Philosophy of Life: Carnegie used to ask Paul Bowdenen, director of the personnel department of Svane Oil Company, who is the biggest mistake the job seeker often makes. This person who had interviewed 60,000 job seekers and who also wrote a book on the “Six Ways to Search for a Job,” said: The biggest mistake made by job seekers is not maintaining their true nature. Public places do not show their true colors, they cannot be completely honest and they always want to give you the best answer. In fact, this is of no avail, because no one likes hypocrites, and no one is willing to accept fake banknotes. There is also a story about Cathy Dali, daughter of the tram captain. She likes singing since childhood, and