费孝通教授在对中国社会的深入观察的基础上,写成了《乡土中国》一书,本书中关于中国社会的描述堪称经典,虽然本书的成书背景离我们已经久远,但是书中的观念依然适用于现在的中国社会。本文主要是从差序格局这一中国传统社会的格局出发,探讨了中国传统社会中“私”的问题,并总结出,中国传统社会中的“私”具有相对性,以及中国传统社会中社会道德标准也是私人的道德的观点,之所以做这方面的工作,是因为笔者认为,千百年来的“私”文化,在不断变迁的现代的中国社会中仍然维系着人与人之间的关系格局。 Based on his in-depth observation of Chinese society, Professor Fei Xiaolong has written a book called “Native China.” This book describes the Chinese society as a classic. Although the book’s background is far from us, The concept is still applicable to the present Chinese society. This paper mainly discusses the issue of “private ” in traditional Chinese society from the pattern of Chinese traditional society in terms of the pattern of difference, and concludes that “private ” has the relativity in Chinese traditional society and that China The social moral standard in traditional society is also a private moral point of view. The reason why we do this work is because the author believes that the “private” culture for thousands of years still maintains in the ever-changing modern Chinese society The relationship between people pattern.