有的老师常常苦于后进生的对立情绪:你要他这样,他偏要那样.殊不知,在后进生这种表面对抗的假象后面,隐藏了他渴求老师爱抚的微妙心理.要求得到老师的爱抚,这是小学生普遍的心理要求.有时,老师爱抚地摸一下学生的头,或深情地望他 Some teachers often suffer from backward emotions in later life: If you want him to do something like this, you know, behind the illusion of superficial confrontation, you hide the subtlety he craves for his teacher's caress, This is a common psychological requirement for pupils, sometimes the teacher caresses the student's head, or looks down at him affectionately