一、不战而屈人之兵 如果我们自己意识到自己有什么事不对头,我们是很容易纠正自己的。但是如果别人指责我们,说我们有什么事不对头,我们就会千方百计为自己辩解。如果有人声明他决心要纠正我们的错误,我们就会找出种种理由证明我们根本没有错,也不需要加以纠正。一个极其残忍地杀死了许多政治家的职业杀手,在法庭受审时,居然可以振振有词地为自已辩护说:“我们大家,包括陪审员、律师和大法官,大 First, the soldiers who do not fight the enemy If we ourselves realize that something is wrong, we can easily correct ourselves. But if others blame us and say something is wrong with us, we will try our best to justify ourselves. If someone states that he is determined to correct our mistake, we will find various reasons to prove that we are not wrong at all and we do not need to correct it. A professional killer who killed many politicians with brutal killings, while trying in court, could vibrantly plead himself: "All of us, including jurors, lawyers and judges, are large