唯一摆脱贫困的方法就是学习,从各种事情、不同的人身上学习,给养自己比什么都重要。我有一位大学同学,刚开始认识她时,只是觉得她这个人性格真好,会照顾人、不发脾气,关键是沉得住气。深入交往之后,她告诉我:“其实,我性格好,最主要的原因是我自卑,生怕得罪什么人,所以,只能对所有人都好。”我问:“为什么自卑呢?你学习这么好?”她有些不好意思地说:“我家很穷,上大学的钱都是借来的。吃 The only way to get out of poverty is to learn, to learn from various things and different people, and to provide ourselves is more important than anything else. When I first got to know her, I just had a college classmate who just felt that she was a good person, would take care of her, and did not lose her temper. The key was to live in peace. In-depth exchanges, she told me: ”In fact, my character is good, the main reason is that I am inferiority, for fear of offended, so, can only be good for all. “ I asked: ”why inferiority? You study so well? “She was embarrassed to say: ” My family is very poor, borrow money to go to college.