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1、发现优点。小孩若有好的表现,不论多寡都应当予以重视和鼓励,尽量发掘事物美好的一面。表现差的孩子,在某些地方也有超出一般儿童的地方,家长要善于发现孩子的特长,因势利导,培养他们对学习的兴趣,自觉地学习。 2、要制怒。说话的声音尽量柔和缓慢。虽然生气是难免的,但是可以稍加控制怒气,况且生气并不代表你不爱小孩。处理不可避免的事故时,要努力控制自己,保持冷静。 3、少否定。避免使用一连串的否定语气,如:停掉……别……不可以……等。 4、就事论事。尽量把人和行为分开。如:“我喜欢你,但是我一点也不喜欢你弄得满屋子都是泥巴。” 5、按时作息。小孩应该有固定的作息表,起床、吃饭、游戏、看电视、做功课、做家务事和就寝时间都应该固定、即使有
1, found advantages. If children have good performance, no matter how much they should be valued and encouraged, try to explore the good side of things. Poor performance of children, in some places beyond the average child, parents should be good at discovering children’s strengths, make the best use of their own interest in learning to develop and consciously learn. 2, to anger. The voice as soft as possible. Although angry is inevitable, but can be slightly controlled anger, and angry does not mean you do not love children. When dealing with unavoidable accidents, try to control yourself and stay calm. 3, less negative. Avoid using a series of negative tones, such as: stop ... do not ... can not ... wait. 4, things matter. Try to separate people and behavior. Such as: “I like you, but I do not like that you make the room full of mud.” 5, schedule work. Children should have regular schedules, get up, eat, games, watch TV, do their homework, housework and bedtime should be fixed, even if there is