前苏联教育家苏霍姆林斯基曾说过:教育的效果取决于学校与家庭影响的一致性。如果没有这种一致性,那么学校的教学和教育的过程就会像纸做的房子一样倒塌下来。家庭,作为孩子从小到大生长的地方,父母与孩子的亲子关系,对孩子的影响是不言而喻的。而学校,则是孩子受教育的主要场所。家庭和学校作为孩子成长过程中的两股主要教育力量,如果能相互配合、支持,将形成教育的合力,则起到强化教育的作用;但若家庭和学 Sukhomlinski, a former Soviet educator, once said: The effectiveness of education depends on the consistency of school and family influence. Without this consistency, the teaching and education of the school collapsed like a paper-made house. Family, as children growing up from small to large, parents and children’s parent-child relationship, the impact on children is self-evident. The school, is the main place for children’s education. Family and school, as the two major educational forces in the process of children’s growth, can play an important role in enhancing education if they can work together and support each other. However, if families and schools