1952年,我进入了汤用彤先生的家,嫁给了他的长子——1951年刚从北大哲学系毕业的汤一介。结婚典礼就在小石作胡同汤家举行。按照我们的策划,婚礼只准备了喜糖、花生、瓜子和茶水。晚上8点,我的同班同学、共青团委员会的战友们和党委的一些领导同志都来了,气氛热闹活跃。如我所想,这是一场“反传统”的婚礼,没有任何仪式,连向父母行礼也免了,也没有请父母或领导讲话。汤老先生和我婆婆坐在北屋的走廊上,笑眯眯地看 In 1952, I entered the house of Mr. Tung Tong and married his eldest son, Tom Yat-sen, who just graduated from Peking University’s Philosophy Department in 1951. The wedding ceremony was held on Little Rock for Hutong Tang Family. According to our plan, wedding only prepared candy, peanuts, melon seeds and tea. At 8 o’clock in the evening, my classmates, comrades-in-arms of the CYL Committee and some leading comrades of the party committees have come and the atmosphere is brisk and lively. As I think, this is a “anti-traditional” wedding. There are no rituals even to salute the parents, and no parents or leaders are invited to speak. Mr. Tang Lao and my mother sitting in the corridor of the North House, smiling to see