她调查杭州新人婚姻登记前的一项问卷调查显示,最有代表性的问题是:婚后家庭成员的排序?“70后”大部分男性把父母排第一位,而女性把子女排第一位;“80后”一半男性把父母放第一,一半女性把子女放第一;“90后”夫妻意见趋同,70%都把伴侣放首位。(浙江在线)有证据显示:把夫妻关系搞好,其他关系更有可能会水到渠成。 A questionnaire survey before marriage registration for her newcomer in Hangzhou shows that the most representative question is: What is the rank of the family members after marriage? Most of the men rank the parents first, while the women rank the children’s row First; “after 80” half of the men put their parents first, half of the women put their children first; “90 ” the convergence of the views of husband and wife, 70% of the partners put the first place. (Zhejiang Online) There is evidence that doing a good job of husband-wife relationships is more likely to come in handy.