短,即缺点、过失。在日常生活中,举目可见有些家长,当自己的孩子与别人的孩子发生矛盾时,不是先问明情况,弄清是非,而是一味地指责别人孩子的不对,百般地为自己孩子护短。其实这是一个“无形的陷阱”。宋代诗人陆游曾对他儿子说:“我昨天乘轿进城遇雨,一个穿新鞋的轿夫,一开头 Short, that is, shortcomings, negligence. In everyday life, we can see some parents who, when confronting their children with other children’s children, do not ask about the situation first and find out right and wrong, but blindly blame others for their mistakes and protect their children in every possible way. In fact, this is an “invisible trap.” Song Dynasty poet Lu You once said to his son: "I went to the city by car yesterday, the rain, a bearer of new shoes, a beginning