儿子出生后一直由我们自己带。半年前,因为我们夫妻俩同时出差,不得已把5岁儿子放在奶奶家了。没想到我们回家后,他却不愿意回了,理由是“在奶奶家想干什么就干什么”!原来他奶奶不仅让他在家为所欲为,还同意他不上幼儿园。我们不能改变老人带孩子的方式,但作为父母,该怎么做才能让儿子懂规矩,不再受奶奶的影响? The son has been taken by ourselves since birth. Six months ago, because of our husbands and husbands traveling at the same time, they had to put 5-year-old son in grandmother’s home. He did not expect us to go home after he did not want to go back on the grounds that “what my grandmother wanted to do what!” It turned out that his grandmother not only let him do whatever they want at home, also agreed that he did not go to kindergarten. We can not change the way the elderly bring children, but as parents, what can we do to make our sons understand the rules, no longer affected by grandmas?