我发现婚姻中单一个人努力是不够的,我再努力,他也不看在眼里。这么久以来每天他都不回来吃饭,自己一人在书房睡,他都没有生理需要吗?是怎么解决的?我觉得自己像他手中的一块鸡肋,这种滋味让我很痛苦。自从经历那可怕的冷战,我跟他相处起来都是小心翼翼的,不像其他夫妻有说有笑,只有他心情好的时候才会跟我说上几句。 I found that it was not enough for a single individual to work in marriage. I worked hard again and he did not look into the eyes. For so long he did not come back to eat every day, himself sleeping in the study, he did not have physiological needs? How to solve? I feel like a chicken in his hand, this taste makes me very painful. I have been cautious with him since the horrific Cold War. Unlike the other couples, they talked to me only when he was in a good mood.