刘添儿,男,高一新生,入学成绩一般,家庭条件较好,父母是公务员。由于工作繁忙,父母很少回家。因此孩子平时由爷爷、奶奶照顾,爷爷、奶奶对孩子只是一味地骄纵、溺爱、惯养。刘添儿的依赖性太强。学习没有目标,上课不发言,学习有问题也不解决,学校和班级的活动一概不参与;平时不爱说话,易冲动,常与同学打架、争执;对家长也不尊重。我在几次与家长的谈话过 Liu Tim children, male, freshmen, general admission, family conditions are good, parents are civil servants. Due to busy work, parents rarely go home. Therefore, the child usually by grandpa, grandmother care, grandfather, grandmother just blindly to children, spoiled, used to. Liu Tim children rely too much. Learning no goals, classes do not speak, learning problems are not resolved, the school and class activities are not involved; usually do not like to talk, easy to impulse, often fight with classmates, disputes; nor respect for parents. I talked with my parents several times