假如你确实有兴趣了解自己,以及自己的人性弱点,那就以怜悯的眼光看待那个叫“前妻”的人吧。她无可避免地存在于你的生活之中,为你的付出和失败做了珍贵无比的记录。我猜想正是因为后者,很难让我们回想起她所有的一切,但同时也很难让我们不去想她。我的看法是,一朝与她共偕连理,特别是和她生儿育女后,我们生命的一部分就永远献给了她。 If you are really interested in knowing yourself and your own human weaknesses, then look at the person named “ex-wife” with pity. She inevitably exists in your life, making a precious record of your efforts and failures. I guess it is because of the latter that it is difficult for us to recall everything she has, but at the same time it is difficult for us not to think about her. My opinion is that once I was together with her, especially after having a child with her, part of our life was always dedicated to her.