很多结过婚的人都有这样的感受:婚前卿卿我我,一日不见如隔三秋,甚至有的人顶着父母不同意的强大阻力走到了一起。可婚后对婚姻充满美好的憧憬却被柴米油盐取代了,从而一些鸡毛蒜皮的小矛盾也在日益增加。有的人不禁自问:难道是自己选择错了？其实,婚后出现的矛盾有心理因素。 Many married people have such a feeling: I am a prenuptial Qing, one day, not as autumn and autumn, and even some people with their parents do not agree with the strong resistance came together. Married after the marriage is full of beautiful vision has been replaced by the daily necessities, and thus some trivial contradictions are also increasing. Some people can not help but ask: Is it their own choice wrong? In fact, there are psychological factors of conflict after marriage.