一曾经看过一篇文章说到关中人一生有三件大事:结婚、殡葬和盖房,尤其在农村和乡镇更是如此。此言不虚,我上大学以前一直生活在关中,可以为证。其实三件事中结婚和殡葬被动性很强,而且这两个过程持续时间也就两三天,而盖房就不同了,这是当事者最为主动地做的一件大事,所耗时间、财力及精力特别巨大,对多数人来说就是一生心血与梦想的体现,能力不及者一生盖不起房,带着遗憾而去。 An article once read about Guanzhong’s life has three major events: marriage, funeral and building, especially in rural areas and townships. This remark is true, I have been living in college before Guanzhong, can be evidence. In fact, the three things married and funeral passively strong, and the duration of these two processes also two or three days, and the housing is different, which is the most active parties to do a major event, the time and money And great energy, for most people is the embodiment of a lifetime effort and dreams, ability to cover a lifetime less than life, with regret away.